True Love…

sitting by the river“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more.

You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement.

They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful.

There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are.

The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant.

Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face.

In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you.

You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible.

You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile.

Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
― Bob Marley


In the comment section below, ask me one question related to Love and Relationships, and receive a channeled answer.

– Gail

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13 Responses to “True Love…”

  1. Judy Hashek Says:

    What is the status of my marriage after 26 years?

  2. gembery Says:

    Hello Judy,
    Thanks for your question.
    I immediately get a feeling of solidness. Your marriage is solid! No one even thinking about going anywhere. The sparks and romanticism may not be as in the early days, but I feel a settled down, loving, respectful, comfortable, commitment to the marriage and staying together. Your husband is very thoughtful and does things to try to keep the spark going in your lives. You are so blessed to have this man in your life! The really good thing is that you have separate and similar interests.
    Much continued success.
    Peace and Love,

  3. Freedom Says:

    Hello Gail!! Im not sure how much information is needed here but my question is: The guy that I have been seeing for a year says that he is filing for his divorce soon(they have been separated for 5 years). Is he telling me the truth? If he is how long will it be before he files?

  4. gembery Says:

    Hello Freedom,
    Thank you for your question. I feel that your boyfriend does love you and is strongly considering marriage. He is truthful and open about his feelings for you and his situation. The numbers I get in response to your question are between 6 and 12. (six to twelve weeks feels really good and strong for me) It could be within six weeks for the filing and twelve for the actual finalization. I do, however, feel that you have trust issues which cause you to behave in ways that are not not appealing to him . Please “Let Go” and “Let God”. Your Angels are by your side, guiding, whispering and protecting you. You are in control and in charge of the situation. The final outcome depends on you…

    Peace and Love,

  5. Blue Says:

    Hi Gail,
    My question is: is this the one? Should I keep hanging in there or move on?

  6. gembery Says:

    Hello Blue,
    I feel a little more complicated than a direct answer for you. I feel more than one love interest/involvement for you. It’s sort of like up and down with one or both. I feel you can’t decide.
    My immediate reaction is “Yes” hang in a little longer. He will tell (Show) you exactly where he’s coming from, if he has not already done so. If you pay attention, you will know what to do. I also feel a celebration/party of some sort coming up for you soon/near future.
    Peace and Blessings,

  7. Love Below Says:

    Mama Gail,

    What’s the status regarding my romantic life? Will this person be someone new that I am to meet or someone that I know already? Thank you!

  8. gembery Says:

    Hello Love Below,
    Thank you for your question. Although I indicated I would answer one question, I feel I have a little more to share with you. First, you are also very intuitive but not feeling confident about that. Meditation will help! I feel the results of a breakup still affecting you and if you are considering going back to an old relationship, I would not recommend at this time. Also feel you’re planning or wanting to take a trip.
    Peace and Blessings,

  9. Candy Says:

    Hi Gail,
    Will I ever have a true love of my own? I really don’t want to start collecting cats.

  10. gembery Says:

    Hi Candy,
    Thank you for your question.
    I feel you wanting to go back to some situation you were once with. It’s not a bad thing! Also feel court action around you. It will turn out OK. Maybe a businessman or business situation. I know I have not answered the question you asked about collecting cats, but this is what I get for you. I’m also thinking about starting my own cat collection. HaHaHa. I also feel you’re (were) a healer/teacher of some sort.

    Peace and Blessings,

  11. gembery Says:

    That’s all for tonight.
    Thank you, everyone, for your questions.
    If you have any feedback or need clarification, please feel free to email me at

    Peace and Blessings,

  12. Exie Smith Says:

    Gail this is great. I find this true, luckily with my husband. Life is fuller and happier with him in it. In the last year I have cleaned house, so to speak, with family and friends. I have cut out those that drain and use me for there own purposes. I feel lighter inside having done this, not an easy thing to do, but necessary. It has made my relationship with my husband better as well. More time and better time with and for him/us.
    Thank you for the blog, great as usual.
    Blessings to you,

  13. gembery Says:

    Hi Exie,
    I’m glad you were able to resonate with the latest blog article. Yes, we eventually reach a point in life where we have to cut out the negative stuff so we have more room to enjoy what’s good in our lives. Good for you and much continued happiness in your marriage.